There is a story to be told about Americans from a friend in Turkey. The story is as follows:
I have a group of friends who are Americans. One day I said, "You too polite. Compliment Everything. Have rarely I see you disparage about anything".
That is true.
If something is considered good, they usually told it is excellent. And it's something that just so so, they would say that is good. In a nutshell nothing is bad.
And I asked them: "So how do I know the truth, that you really liked my dish for you?"
And then, my fellow Americans have to admit that what I said is very accurate.
Although no explanation given why, but they said: "If you want to know an American who enjoy cooking dishes by you, look for them on the next visit. If any dish that we ate only once, it means we do not like. If any dish that we just want to eat more, which is a dish that we enjoyed".
This story made me really love the American lifestyle. That means, they always want to respect you, even if they do not like it.
It is also a way to show the courtesy of the American people.
Americans rarely disparage others. It is right. But why?
Why do Americans rarely want to disparage or criticize others? Many people have shared with me, because Americans have always believed that everything from you and will get better, things will eventually become great.
And so, they always believe that everything will become better, from themselves, their efforts and lives.
However, sometimes this way of expression may also make people misunderstand Americans. For example, they may think, Americans are not honest, not as a way to show gentlemanly. You should read more another post: Americans often do not say the truth
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I have a group of friends who are Americans. One day I said, "You too polite. Compliment Everything. Have rarely I see you disparage about anything".
That is true.
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| An excursion programs for children in the United States. All of photos: http://www.usbr.gov/ |
And I asked them: "So how do I know the truth, that you really liked my dish for you?"
And then, my fellow Americans have to admit that what I said is very accurate.
Although no explanation given why, but they said: "If you want to know an American who enjoy cooking dishes by you, look for them on the next visit. If any dish that we ate only once, it means we do not like. If any dish that we just want to eat more, which is a dish that we enjoyed".
This story made me really love the American lifestyle. That means, they always want to respect you, even if they do not like it.
It is also a way to show the courtesy of the American people.
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| Americans very love the outdoor activities |
Why do Americans rarely want to disparage or criticize others? Many people have shared with me, because Americans have always believed that everything from you and will get better, things will eventually become great.
And so, they always believe that everything will become better, from themselves, their efforts and lives.
However, sometimes this way of expression may also make people misunderstand Americans. For example, they may think, Americans are not honest, not as a way to show gentlemanly. You should read more another post: Americans often do not say the truth
Or back to homepage to read other articles: What do everyone think about American?